A while ago, I started writing a memoir. But for someone with a degree in psychology and a life-long interest in the ways that people are unique, it wasn't long before I began to consider how much I had been shaped by my genes and how much by my adoptive parents (nature vs nurture). But then I began to wonder how much I had been impacted by the process of being adopted.
All that lhat led me to look for books by adopted individuals, which led me to books written by mothers whose children had been taken from them either though their choice or against their wishes.
I was deeply affected by what I read. It gave me a lot more understanding of what my birth moher went through. A lot more understanding of what my adoptive parents went through. And a lot more insight into why I am the way I am.
Do I wish I hadn't been adopted? No. I don't regret anything that happened. But I can see how everything could have been better for everyone involved. And I'll probably post about that as I go along. I'm hoping to get back to my memoir soon.
Anyway, to read some of the things I discovered, check out the blogs below.